Kurota kwepabonde ndeimwe yezviroto zvinokonzera kushungurudzika kukuru kumukadzi, uye kududzirwa kwechiratidzo ichi kunosiyana zvichienderana nerudzi rwayo uye chimiro chayakauya nacho.
Pakati pavo kuona hukama hwepabonde nehukunakuna, uye kurota uku kunyanya kunogona kukonzera kutya kukuru pakuiona, sezvo ine dudziro dzakawanda, dzakarondedzerwa nenyanzvi dzakawanda dzekududzira hope, uye zviratidzo zvose zvekuona makunakuna zvinogona kupfupikiswa. kumusoro mumufananidzo unotevera.
Dudziro yehope dzemakunakuna dzaIbn Sirin naNabulsi
- Ibn Sirin anopfuurira kutaura kuti roorano yose zvayo inorumbidzwa, mungava muchiono kana kuti chaizvoizvo, ine zvidzoreso zvapamutemo nemitemo inoshanda.
- Al-Nabulsi anobvumirana naye uye Yazid kuti kusangana pabonde kunofananidzira chinzvimbo chepamusoro, chinzvimbo chikuru, uye chinzvimbo chepamusoro.
- Uye kana chiitiko chekuti kusangana kwepabonde muchiroto kunoguma nekurota kwemvura, ipapo chiratidzo ichi chimwe chezvishuvo zvemweya uye kusanganiswa kwepfungwa dzepabonde mupfungwa dzemuroti, saka dudziro yaro ndeyokuti hapana tsanangudzo. it.
- Nezve makunakuna, vese Ibn Sirin naAl-Nabulsi vanoti chiratidzo chinomiririra kupfava mushure mekurambana, uye kubatana mushure mekuparadzaniswa.
- Ichi chiono chinofananidzira, muchiitiko icho muoni ari kupesana nemhuri yake, kudzoka kwekubatana kwake navo, uye kubatana kwezvisungo sezvazvaive, uye zvakatosimba.
- Uye kana munhu akaona kuti ari kurara nemakunakuna ake, uye iyo iri mumwedzi yekuita tsika dzeHajj, zvino izvi zvinomiririra kuita kwechisungo ichi muchokwadi uye kuzadzikiswa kwekuwana kwemuroti.
- Ibn Sirin akati kuona murume achirara nemwanasikana wake chiratidzo chematambudziko achamuka pakati pavo muchokwadi munguva pfupi iri kutevera.
- Kana mwanasikana ari muduku, izvi zvinoratidza matambudziko nekuda kwekusiyana kwezera kana nekuda kwekusawirirana pakati pechizvarwa chevabereki uye chizvarwa chevana.
- Muchiitiko chekuti mukoma akarara nehanzvadzi yake, Ibn al-Nabulsi akaona kuti rwaive rudo nekunzwisisana pakati pavo, uye rudo uye chisungo cheukama chakasimba.
- Uye chiono chacho chose hachinyevereri pamusoro pechakaipa kana kuti kuitika kwechimwe chinhu chakashata chaizvoizvo, asi chinobva mundangariro yomukati yomunhu uye hachina chokuita nazvo kana kuti noudzame hunoitika kwaari muhope dzake.
Kududzirwa kwehope dzepabonde naamai
- Kana murume wechidiki akaona kuti ari kurara naamai vake, saka ndeimwe yezviratidzo zvisingafadzi, uye humbowo hukuru hwekusiyana uye matambudziko aripo pakati pemukomana naamai vake, uye zvichida kusanzwisisana kuchamuka. pakati pavo munguva inouya.
- Aivewo neimwe pfungwa paainakidzwa nekunakidzwa nekufara muchiroto nehukama ihwohwo, hunova hwekuti chisungo chiri pakati pejaya iroro naamai vake chisungo chakasimba, uye humbowo hwerudo nerudo pakati pavo, uye tsitsi dzemwanakomana iye, uye uchapupu hwebasa rake kwaari.
Zvose zvinorehwa nechiono ichi zvinogona kutsanangurwa sezvinotevera:
- Ndarota ndichirara naamai vangu, chiratidzo ichi chinoratidza kuti hukama hwemuroti nababa vake hunogona kunge husina kumira zvakanaka kwenguva refu, kunyanya panguva iyoyo, uye kuti pane imwe mhando yekukakavara yakarembera pamusoro pekubata kwake naye.
- Kududzirwa kwekurota kwehupombwe naamai kunofananidzira kuti muoni akatora mabasa uye mitoro yeimba uye ave mutariri wezvinhu zvake.
- Kana baba vemuoni vachirwara kana kuti vakafa, saka kududzirwa kwehope yekuroora amai inoreva kuendeswa kwemabasa kwaari, uye ipapo muoni ari panzvimbo yababa.
- Uye kana muoni ave kure nemusha kwenguva yakareba, kana kuti ari kufamba kubva kumhuri yake uye kure navo, zvino kuona kusangana kwaamai muchiroto kunoratidza kudzoka kwake munguva yemberi iri pedyo.
- Ndakarota ndichiita bonde naamai vangu, Ibn Sirin.Chiratidzo, maererano nemaonero emutongi Ibn Sirin, humbowo hwekudzoka kwemvura kune yakajairika pakati pemwanakomana naamai vake.
- Kana paiva nokusawirirana kusingaenzaniswi uye makwikwi pakati pavo, ipapo chiono chake cheizvi chinozivisa kunyangarika kwezvipingamupinyi zvose pakati poukama hwake naye, kudzokera kwake kuchipfuva chake zvakare, uye kugadzikana kwechakavanzika chaamai padivi pake uye kumukanganwira kwake.
- Ndarota ndichiroora amai vangu, uye chiratidzo ichi chinoratidzawo kubatsirwa kubva kuna amai, zvingave zvinobatsira zvinhu kana tsika uye psychological.
- Kana muoni wacho aiva murombo, mamiriro ake ezvinhu aichinja kuva nani uye akanga akapfuma.
Kusvirana natete kana tete kuhope
- Kana chiono chikaunza pamwe chete mamwe maharamu, satete kana tete, pane humbowo hwekuti izwi iri rava pedyo.
- Chiratidzo chinogona kunge chiri chiratidzo chekusiya nyika, uye ndeimwe yezviroto izvo dudziro yadzo yakaipa uye nhamo kune muoni.
- Zvakanziwo zvinogona kuratidza kuberekwa kwemwana akarambidzwa.
- Ibn Sirin akati achawira muupombwe, Mwari ngaarege, munguva inouya, uye zvichida chivi chakafanana mukuranga, uye Mwari anoziva zvakanakisisa.
- Uye kana muroti aive nehukama hwakashata nehama dzake, saka kududzirwa kwechiroto chehupombwe natete kunoratidza hukama hwake naye, kudzoka kwehupenyu pakati pavo zvakare, uye kunyangarika kwenyaya dzaive nyaya. kusawirirana pakati pake naye.
- Kusangana natete vaamai muchiroto kunofananidzirawo kuvepo kwekufarira kwakafanana pakati pavo mune rimwe basa rehupenyu.
- Chiratidzo chacho chinogona kunge chiri chiratidzo chekuda kuroora mwanasikana wamainini vako.
- Ndakarota ndichirara natete, uye chiratidzo ichi chinofananidzira chisungo chepedyo pakati pako navo, chinogona kubvarurwa pane dzimwe nguva vozodzoka zvakare uye kuwedzera kubatana.
- Ndakarota ndichirara natete, uye chiratidzo ichi chinomiririra hurukuro dzakawanda dzakaitika pakati pemuoni natete vake nguva pfupi yadarika maererano nepfungwa yewanano.
- Chiono chimwe chetecho chinoratidzawo zvinangwa zvakafanana uye kuvapo kwemwero wakati webvumirano pakati pazvo muzvinhu zvakawanda.
Ndakarota sekuru vachirara neni
- Kana musikana akaona kuti sekuru vake vaamai vakarara naye muchiroto, ichi chiratidzo chemuchato wake munguva pfupi.
- Uye kana ari mukutambudzika, zvino chiono ichi chinomuzivisa kuti matambudziko ake ese achapera, uye kuti mhinduro dzese dzinogoneka dzichawanikwa kumatambudziko ake akaomarara.
- Chiratidzo chacho chinoratidzawo kuti sekuru vake vakamira padivi pake vachimubatsira pane zvose zvaaiita muupenyu.
- Chiratidzo ichi chinowanda kana zera rasekuru raswedera pedyo nezera remwanasikana wehanzvadzi yavo, uyezve kuva pedyo kwezera ndicho chinhu chinoita kuti sekuru vave shamwari kana mushandirwi anogona kunzwisisa musikana uye kumupa mhinduro dzakakodzera.
- Uye kana muroti wacho akanga ari jaya, uye akaona kuti babamunini vaamai vake vakanga vachifambidzana naye, zvino chiratidzo ichi chinoratidza kuvapo kwekubatsira kwakafanana pakati pavo kana kubatana mune rimwe bhizinesi.
Kududzirwa kwechiroto pamusoro pekuita zvepabonde kumukadzi
- Kana mukadzi aona kuti ari kubatirana nemaharamu ake, izvi zvinoratidza kupfimbana kwake navo uye kuedza kwake kuswedera pedyo navo kuti vabatanidze zviratidzo.
- Chiono chacho chingava chiratidzo chezvinetso zvemhuri uye nguva yakaoma yairi kupinda, iyo iri kuedza kuwana mhinduro kuitira kuti mamiriro acho ezvinhu arege kuwedzera uye zvisungo pakati pemitezo yemhuri zvinoputsika.
- Kuona makunakuna muzviroto zvevakadzi kunofananidzirawo kuedza kwakawanda kunoita mukadzi wese kuchengetedza mamiriro asingagoni kuponeswa.
- Nekune rumwe rutivi, chiono ichi chinoburitsa mhinduro dzisiridzo dzinopihwa nevakadzi, uye nzira yakaipa chose yekugadzirisa dambudziko.
- Kana mukadzi akaona kuti ari kurara nemaharam ake, ipapo izvi zvinoratidza kuti ari kuzviisa munzvimbo dzekufungidzira, asingateereri zvaanotaura, uye asingafungi zvakanaka asati aita zvisarudzo.
- Muchiitiko chekuti musikana anoona kuti mukoma wake akarara naye, izvi zvinoratidza kuti ari kumuvanzira chakavanzika chikuru.
- Chiratidzo chimwe chete chekare chingava chiratidzo chekuzivisa chakavanzika chinozokonzera kukakavara kwakawanda nematambudziko.
- Uye kana mukadzi ane pamuviri akaona mumwe wemahram ake achirara naye muhope, ichi chiratidzo chokuti mwana wake achangoberekwa achava akafanana nemunhu waakaona naye.
Kududzirwa kwechiroto pamusoro pekuita zvepabonde muhope kune mukadzi mumwe chete
Zvinozivikanwa kuti makunakuna anorambidzwa uye hazvigamuchirwi, asi kana zvasvika pakurota uye dudziro dzemasheikh nemaimamu, nyaya yacho inogona kusiyana, saka tinowana zviratidzo zvinoratidza zvakanaka uye zvinogona kuratidza zvakaipa, sezvatinoona nenzira inotevera. :
- Kududzirwa kwechiroto pamusoro pepabonde muhope dzemukadzi mumwe chete kunoratidza kufara nekugadzikana kwemhuri, hukama hwemhuri, uye hukama hwakasimba hwehukama.
- Kana musikana achiona kuti ari kufambidzana nababa vake muchiroto, ichi chiratidzo chekuwana rubatsiro rwakakura kubva kwaari uye rudo rwake rukuru uye kumupurudzira.
- Kusangana kwepabonde nevakafa muchiroto chemusikana kunogona kuva chiratidzo chekushungurudzika uye kushungurudzika.
- Munyaya yekugara pamwe chete nababa vakafa muchiroto chemuroti, chiratidzo chekuwana chikamu chake chenhaka.
- Muchirevo chekutaura nezvemakunakuna muchiroto, kuroorana naamai hakusi kudiwa uye kuvengwa.
- Kuona makunakuna muchiroto chemusikana, uye nguva yechiratidzo yaive mumwedzi inoera, saka inhau yakanaka kwaari kuti azadzise zvishuwo zvake uye oenda kunoita Hajj uye kushanyira imba inoera yaMwari.
Kududzirwa kwechiroto chekusangana nehama yevakadzi vasina varume
- Kududzirwa kwekurota kwekusangana nehama muchiroto chimwe chete kunoratidza kunzwisisa pakati pavo uye hukama hwepedyo.
- Nepo, kana muroti akaona kuti hanzvadzi yake iri kurara naye nechisimba uye nekumanikidza muchiroto, ipapo ichi chiratidzo chekuisa kutonga kwake paari uye kudzora zvisarudzo zvake uye kudzora zvinhu zvake.
- Kududzirwa kwehope yekurara nehama kune mukadzi asina kuroorwa kunoratidza kuti achazivisa zvakavanzika zvake kwaari uye achimuona seshamwari.
- Kana baba vafa, uye muoni achiona kuti ari kusangana nemukoma wake muchiroto, ichi chiratidzo chekutsigira kwake, kutarisira zvinhu zvake uye kuita zvaanoda.
- Dudziro yekugara pamwe chete kwehama nehanzvadzi yayo isina kuroorwa, Bishara, nemuchato wake wepedyo.
Kududzirwa kwehope mukoma wangu achirara nemukadzi akaroora
- Ichi chiono chinofananidzira hukama hwakasimba pakati pemuoni nemukoma wake muchokwadi, uye chisungo chiri kuwedzera kusimba zuva nezuva.
- Kana mukadzi akaroorwa akaona kuti mukoma wake ari kurara naye, ipapo chiratidzo ichi chinoratidza kuti anoda chimwe chinhu kubva kwaari, kana kuti anoda kuti azadzise zvaanoda.
- Muchiitiko icho mukadzi ari kupesana nemurume wake, chiono ichi chinofananidzira kupindira kwehama uye kununura kwake mamiriro ezvinhu asati achinja kuva migumisiro isingadikanwi, yakadai sokuparadzana, somuenzaniso, kana kurambana kusingachinji.
- Uye chiono chekusangana kwehama nemukadzi akaroorwa chinoratidza zvakavanzika zvaanochinjana naye, uye zvinhu izvo pasina anoziva nezvazvo kunze kwake.
- Uye kana pane kutsemuka pakati pake nemukoma wake, ipapo chiratidzo ichi chinoratidza kudzoka kwemvura kune hova dzavo pakati pavo uye kuwedzera kwekudyidzana.
Kududzirwa kwekurota kwepabonde kune mukadzi akaroorwa nemwanakomana wake
- Kududzirwa kwekurota kwepabonde kumukadzi akaroorwa ane mwanakomana mukuru muchiroto, uye baba vairwara muchokwadi.
- Asi kana mwanakomana ari parwendo uye mukadzi akaona kuti ari kurara naye, ipapo ichi chiratidzo chokudzokera kwake muchitokisi pashure pokunge asipo kwenguva refu uye kudzokera kwake kunyika yokumusha kwake nemhuri yake.
- Ibn Sirin anoti kuona boka remwanakomana muchiroto chemukadzi akaroorwa chiratidzo chekumira kwekukakavadzana pakati pavo, asi kana mwanakomana ari muduku, saka hapana chakanaka maari.
Kududzirwa kwekurota kwepabonde nababa vemukadzi akaroorwa
- Kududzirwa kwehope yekurara nababa kumukadzi akaroorwa kunoratidza kubuda kwekukakavadzana pakati pake nemurume wake uye kudzokera kumba kwababa vake uye kupindira kwake kuti avayananise.
- Asi kana baba mushakabvu aiva, uye muoni akaona kuti akarara naye, ichi chiratidzo chokuwana mugove wake wenhaka.
- Nyanzvi dzinopa mashoko anofadza kumukadzi akaroorwa anoona kuti ari kupengesana nababa vake muchiroto nokunzwa nhau yenhumbu yake yava pedyo.
Kududzirwa kwehope mukoma wangu achirara nemukadzi ane pamuviri
- Kana mukadzi ane pamuviri akaona kuti ari kurara nehanzvadzi yake, zvino izvi zvinomiririra rubatsiro rwaanopa kwaari munguva ino yakaoma yehupenyu hwake.
- Chiratidzo ichi chinofananidzirawo kumira kwake parutivi pake uye kumupa rubatsiro rwese, zvemari, tsika kana pfungwa.
- Chiratidzo ichi chinoratidzawo kuti mwana wake anotevera achafanana nababamunini vake maererano nemaitiro, maitiro, uye mafungiro.
- Kuona hama muchiroto kungave chiratidzo chekuti ari kuita mamwe ebhizinesi rake.
- Ukuwo, chiono ichi chinofananidzira kuti mukoma anopa hanzvadzi yake chengetedzo uye nhomba kubva kune chero njodzi, uye inomudzivirira kubva kuzvinhu zvese zvinogona kumukuvadza kana kukanganisa mwana wake wemangwana.
Kududzirwa kwechiroto pamusoro pekuita zvepabonde kune murume
- Chiratidzo ichi chinosiyana mukududzira pakati pechakanaka nechakaipa, sezvo chine mativi maviri, rimwe rakashata uye rimwe rakanaka.
- Kana iri chinhu chakanaka kana chakanaka chechiratidzo ichi, chiratidzo chokuti muroti ane hukama hwakasimba uye hwakasimba pakati pake neuyo anorara naye muchiroto, vangave amai vake, tete, tete, kana hanzvadzi, kunyanya kana paine rudo netsitsi pakati pavo.
- Uye kana ukama hwake navo hwakaipa chaizvoizvo, ipapo chiono chinofananidzira kuvapo kworudzi rwokuyanana ruchaitika nokukurumidza somuuyo wokusangana navo pane imwe nhambo kana kuti kubasa.
- Kana iri iyo yakaipa kana yakaipa yechiratidzo ichi, inogona kunge iri yakaipa kuuya kune muoni, kunyanya kana hukama hwepabonde hwakakwana pasina kuona chikamu chayo chete, uye kana zvakamuunza pamwe chete nemwanasikana wake kana kuti akanzwa kufara naye mukati. hope dzacho.
- Kuita makunakuna muchiroto kungave kunoreva kupinda muIhraam uye kuenda kunyika yakarambidzwa munguva pfupi iri kutevera.
- Uye kana muroti achitambura nehurombo, uye achiona kuti ari kufambidzana naamai vake, izvi zvinoratidza pfuma uye mararamiro akawanda.
- Uye kana akanga ari mutorwa, aidzokera kunyika yokumusha ndokusangana navaaida.
- Uye chiono chemakunakuna chinoreva nhamo inotambudza muoni, ichiteverwa nokusunungurwa uye kupera kwenhamo.
Kududzirwa kwekurota kwepabonde kune vasina kuroora
- Kududzirwa kwekurota kwepabonde kune munhu asina kuroorwa kunoratidza kuvandudzwa kwemamiriro ake emuviri uye mupfungwa.
- Kana bhachura achiona kuti ari kurara nemukadzi akanaka muchiroto, saka aya ndiwo mashoko akanaka emuchato wepedyo kumusikana akanaka.
- Kuita makunakuna muchiroto chemurume asina kuroora chiratidzo chekubudirira pabasa uye kukohwa zvakawanda.
- Kuona muroti achiita zvepabonde nehanzvadzi yake muchiroto kunoratidza kutsigira kwake, kupa mazano uye mazano, uye kumubatsira kuita zvisarudzo pasina kumudzora.
Kududzirwa kwechiroto chekusangana nemwanakomana
- Kuona kugarisana kwaamai nemwanakomana wake muchiroto ndechimwe chezviratidzo zvisingafadzi zvinogona kuratidza matambudziko uye kunetseka pakati pemapato maviri.
- Kana muroti achiona kuti ari kufambidzana nemwanakomana wake muchiroto, ichi chiratidzo chekusawirirana pakati pavo nekuda kwenyaya yaasina kubvumirana nayo.
- Kunyange zvazvo dzimwe nyanzvi dzichidudzira kududzirwa kwekurota kwepabonde nemwanakomana sechiratidzo chekurota kwemuroti kuti awane mvumo yaamai vake zvakanyanya sezvinobvira, uye ane mutsa uye akarurama kwaari.
- Zvinonzi baba vanorara nemwanakomana muchiroto chimwe chezviratidzo zvinoratidza kusateerera kwavo mhuri yavo uye kuvapandukira, uye anofanira kuzviongorora zvakare uye kuda kuteerera vabereki kuti awane zvaMwari. kugutsikana.
- Kusangana nemwanakomana mukurota kunogona kuratidza kukuvadza kwakanyanya kwaari, sekubata chirwere.
Kududzirwa kwehope dzekurara naambuya
- Zvinonzi kuona mbuya kuhope kunoratidza kugutsikana nemuroti uye minamato yavo kwaari.
- Kunonzi kuita bonde nemakunakuna kuhope kwakafanana natete kana mbuya, chiono chaive panguva yemwedzi yenzvimbo tsvene, saka chiratidzo chekuti mbuya vari kuenda kuHaji, shanyira. muKaaba, uye munamate muMosque inoera.
- Kana ari kurara nambuya mushakabvu muchiroto, ishoko kumuoni kuti anofanira kunamata uye kupa rudo kwaari.
- Vatongi vakadudzirawo kupupurira kurara naambuya vakafa muchiroto sekuratidza kuti muroti achawana mari yakawanda uye rombo rakanaka kwaari munyika ino.
Kududzirwa kwehope dzekurara nehanzvadzi kubva kumashure
- Kududzirwa kwekurota kwekuita zvepabonde nehanzvadzi kubva kumashure kunoratidza zvitadzo zvakawanda zvemuoni uye chiito chekusateerera uye unzenza, uye anofanira kukurumidza kupfidza kuna Mwari uye kutsvaka tsitsi uye kukanganwirwa.
- Asi kana muoni akapupura kuti ari kurara nehanzvadzi yake ine pamuviri kubva shure mukurota, anogona kutambura nemarwadzo uye dambudziko pakusununguka uye anoda kupindira kwekuvhiya.
- Nezvekupupurira zvepabonde kubva kumashure nehanzvadzi yakaroorwa muchiroto, izvi zvinogona kuratidza kubuda kwematambudziko ewanano uye kusawirirana kunotungamirira kurambana.
Dudziro yehope dzekusvirana natete
Nyanzvi dzinotenda kuti kuona kurara natete vaamai vari voga muchiroto hazvidiwi, sezvatinoona mukududzira kwavo kunotevera:
- Kududzirwa kwekurota kwekusangana natete vaamai kunogona kunyevera muoni nezvekuswedera kweshoko uye kusvika kwekufa kwake, uye Mwari chete ndiye anoziva mazera.
- Zvinonzi kuona pabonde natete muchiroto kumurume akaroora kunoratidza mwana asiri wake asingazivikanwe.
- Ani naani anoona muchiroto kuti ari kurara namainini vake vaamai, anobva atoda kuroora mwanakomana wamainini vaamai, kana achikodzera kuita kudaro.
- Kana muroti akapupurira kuti ane hukama hwepedyo nehanzvadzi yake yakafa muchiroto, zvino ichi chiratidzo chekuita kwake chivi chikuru, chakadai sehupombwe, uye anofanira kuyananisira.
Dudziro yekurota uchirara nemukadzi wasekuru
- Kududzirwa kwehope dzekurara nemukadzi wababamunini muchiroto kunoratidza kuti mukadzi akarurama anomira padivi peanomuona mumatambudziko ake uye anomupa zano saamai.
- Kana muroti achiona kuti ari kurara nemudzimai wababamunini vake muchiroto, zvino ichi chiratidzo chemuchato wava pedyo.
Kurota makunakuna ari paruzhinji
- Dudziro yekugara pamwe chete nehama yaive pamberi pevanhu inofananidzira kuwanda kwekuchera uye makuhwa pakati penhengo dzemhuri, kana kuwanda kwemakuhwa nekutenda izvo nhengo yega yega inonamatira kune imwe.
- Chiono ichi chinoreva kutaura kunze kwechivi, kusapfidza pachiri, uye kuramba uchichiita usingadembi kana kurega.
- Uye kana paine vanhu, asi ivo vasingazivikanwe uye vakapupurira chiitiko ichocho, zvino dudziro yazvo yaive yekuti muoni aizosangana nematambudziko makuru aizova pakati pemunhu iyeye neakaita bonde naye.
- Uye kana munhu akaona kuti ari kurara nemumwe wehama yake pamberi pevanhu, zvino izvi zvinoratidza kuedza kwake kuratidza chimwe chinhu, asi anozviratidza nenzira isina kururama uye isina kufanira.
- Muono uyu unofananidzirawo matambudziko nematambudziko ayo muoni aive akakosha pazviri, asi akazvigadzira ari ega uye nekwake.
- Chiono ichi chinoratidzawo kushaikwa kwemari, urombo, kuderera kwemamiriro ezvinhu, uye kupera kwesimba nechinzvimbo.
Kududzirwa kwehope dzekuvata nemukoma
- Kududzirwa kwechiroto chehama ichiita zvepabonde nehanzvadzi yake kunoratidza kubatsirana pakati pavo kana kubatanidzwa muzvinhu zvakawanda, kudzoka kwacho kunogoverwa pakati pemapato maviri.
- Kana iri kududzirwa kwechiroto chehama ichiita zvepabonde nehanzvadzi yake isina kuroorwa, chiratidzo ichi chiratidzo chezuva rava pedyo remuchato wake uye kuchinja kwehutano hwake hwemagariro evanhu uye manzwiro.
- Kududzirwa kwehope dzekuvata nehama inofananidzira rudo uye kuonga iyo musikana ane hama yake muchokwadi.
- Uye kana mukadzi asina kuroorwa akaona kuti hanzvadzi yake yaimuroora nechisimba uye nekumanikidza, uye akatsamwa kwazvo muchiroto, ipapo chiratidzo ichi chinoratidza kuti muroti arasikirwa nerusununguko uye kuti mukoma ndiye munhu akamutorera. rusununguko urwu kubva kwaari, uye iyo nyaya ichaita kuti akuvadze uye anzwe kusagadzikana.
- Kurota kwemukadzi asina kuroorwa pamusoro pehanzvadzi yake kuroora uchapupu hwekunzwa kwechokwadi kwerudo uye ukama hwaanahwo kwaari, uye kurota ikoko kunoratidzawo kuvimbana pakati pavo muchokwadi.
- Uye dudziro yehope dzekuvata nemukoma wangu inoreva zvakavanzika zvaasingakwanise kuzivisa kune ani zvake kunze kwemunin'ina wake, sezvaanomutora seshamwari asati ave hama.
- Uye kana baba vakafa kana kurwara, saka kududzirwa kwehope dzekuvata nehanzvadzi kunoratidza kudzivirirwa kwehanzvadzi yehanzvadzi yake, kutarisira kwake nyaya dzake, uye kuzadzikiswa kwezvose zvaanoda pasina kushayiwa kana kunyunyuta.
- Kududzirwa kwechiroto chekuva neukama hwepedyo nehanzvadzi inomuratidzawo kuenda kwaari kuitira kuti amupe mazano pane imwe nyaya kana kutora mazano ake mune zvimwe zvezvisarudzo zvake.
- Ndakarota mukoma wangu achifambidzana neni muchiroto, uye maererano nekududzirwa kwechiratidzo ichi, tinoona zvakare kuti zvinodudzirwa sekuroora murume akafanana naye mutsika, hunhu, uye mafungiro.
- Ndakarota mukoma wangu Ibn Sirin achirara neni.Ibn Sirin anotenda kuti kana kusangana pabonde kukava chibharo, chiratidzo ichi chinomuyambira nezvekudikanwa kwekunzvenga mukoma wake kana akaita uori uye achifamba munzira dzisingabvumirwi.
- Kududzirwa kwehope mukoma wangu arikuda kurara neni.Chiratidzo ichi chiratidzo chemuroti anoda kubatsira hanzvadzi yake mune dzimwe nyaya,asi haavimbe nevavariro yake chaiyo,nekuti pane chinomutadzisa haisati yaputswa.
Kududzirwa kwehope dzekurara nehanzvadzi
- Kana mukadzi kana musikana akaona kuti ari kurara nehanzvadzi yake, ichi chiratidzo chekupanana zvakavanzika uye kuti hapana zvakavanzika pakati pehanzvadzi mbiri.
- Chiratidzo chinoratidza kuvimba kukuru, rudo rukuru, uye kusavapo kwemiganhu ipi neipi kana kuputsa pakati pehukama hwavo.
- Uye kana mukadzi akaona kuti ari kuroora hanzvadzi yake, zvino muono uyu mucherechedzo wekutsvaga mazano uye mazano mune dzimwe nyaya dzehupenyu.
- Chiratidzo chacho chine mhosva kana hanzvadzi ichiita seisingazivikanwi muchiroto, sezvo ichi chinofananidzira kutumwa kwezvivi uye chiito chokusateerera.
- Kana zviri izvo zvinoonekwa namambokadzi pakurota, ndezvimwe zvezviono zvinomutsa kufunganya mumoyo memukadzi anozviona, asi hapana chikonzero chekuti.
- Zvino chiono chiri pano chinoratidza kuti ani nani anoona kuti akarara naye ane pundutso kana kuti zvaanoda uye anozadzisa.
- Zvikasadaro, chiono chinoreva pfungwa dzakaipa dzinovhiringa pfungwa dzemukadzi uye dzinoita kuti abve panjere.
Kududzirwa kwehope pamusoro paamai vanoita zvepabonde nemwanakomana wavo
- Kuroorana kwemwanakomana anorwara kuna amai vake muchiroto kunoratidza kudyidzana kwavo kwepedyo uye kusimba kwehukama huri pakati pavo, uye kuvimba kwake zvachose pamusoro pehutano hwake uye kurwara.
- Kuona muroti wekune dzimwe nyika achirara naamai vake muchiroto kunoreva kumushuva kukuru, uye kurota uku kunoratidzawo kudzoka kwemuroti kubva parwendo nokukurumidza.
- Kana muroti achinzwa kufara muchiroto paanenge achiita zvepabonde naamai vake, zvino izvi zvinoratidza rudo rwake rukuru kwaari uye chido chake chenguva dzose chekufara kwake uye kuzadzisa mirairo yake yose.
- Kududzirwa kwekurota kwemwanakomana achirara naamai vake kunofananidzira kudya kwakawanda, kupora kubva kuzvirwere, kunakidzwa kwehutano, chikomborero muhupenyu, uye kubudirira mubhizinesi.
- Nezvekududzirwa kwehope dzandiri kurara nemwanakomana wangu mudiki, chiratidzo ichi chinofananidzira kutya kwakanyanya kwemukadzi kumwanakomana wake, kumuda kwake, uye kuedza kwake kumupa zvese zvaanoda.
- Uye kana kusangana pakati paamai nemwanakomana kwakanga kusina ruchiva, zvino izvi zvinofananidzira kure kwake kubva kwaari kwenguva yakareba, uye chikonzero chedaro chinogona kunge chiri kufamba.
- Muono uyu zvakare unoreva nhaka iyo muoni achabatsirwa nayo mushure mekufa kwamai vake.
Kududzirwa kwehope pamusoro peamai vanoita zvepabonde nemwanasikana wavo
- Chiratidzo ichi chinofananidzira kuvapo kwekuvimbana pakati pemwanasikana naamai, uye rudo rukuru runoita kuti musikana abudise zvakavanzika zvake zvose pasina kutya kana kunzwa kuzvidemba.
- Chiratidzo chekusangana pabonde kwaamai nemwanasikana wavo chinoratidza kupihwa kwezano nemazano muzvisarudzo zvese zvinotorwa nemusikana.
- Chiratidzo chacho chinorevawo amai vanodzidzisa mwanasikana wavo zvinhu zvinokosha zvoukama hwewanano, zvichamubatsira uye zvichamukuvadza, saka anoita zvinobatsira uye anodzivisa zvinokuvadza.
- Chiratidzo chiratidzo chemuchato wemwanasikana wake wava pedyo, uye kubudirira kwehupenyu hwake hwewanano.
- Uye kana kusangana pakati pavo kusina ruchiva mukati maro, zvino chiratidzo ichi chinoratidza kusava nechokwadi kwemwanasikana mumaonero aamai, kana kuvapo kwenhamba yakawanda yekusiyana uye matambudziko pakati pavo.
- Chiratidzo chacho chinogona kufananidzira chido chemwanasikana chokuti amai vake vasapindira muupenyu hwake kana mukusarudza kwake.
Ndakarota ndichirara nehanzvadzi yangu
- Ibn Sirin akatsanangura kuti kuona kuroorwa kwehanzvadzi iyi muchiroto kunoratidza kuda kwakasimba kwehama nehanzvadzi yake uye kuva nehanya kwayo nokuda kwayo kubva pakuipa uye kukuvadza kwevamwe.
- Kusangana kwehama nehanzvadzi yake muchiroto ndeimwe yezviratidzo zvinoratidza kuti hukama hwemuroti nehanzvadzi yake hukama hwakasimba, uye vanotora maonero emumwe nemumwe uye mazano mumamiriro ezvinhu akawanda muupenyu hwavo.
- Vamwe vanyori vakati kurota uku kunoreva zvivi zvemuroti zvakaungana pamapfudzi ake, uye chiratidzo chinoreva chido chemuroti chekutendeuka kubva mazviri.
- Kududzirwa kwechiroto chekurara nehanzvadzi kunogona kufananidzira kuti muroti anofanira kutanga kuyananiswa nehanzvadzi yake kana ari mukukakavadzana naye.
- Uyewo, kududzirwa kwechiroto chekuroora hanzvadzi muchiroto ishoko kune muoni kubata hanzvadzi yake zvakanaka, kumubata zvakakodzera, uye kwete kumudzivisa kubva pakunaka uye mufaro.
- Kududzirwa kwechiroto chehupombwe nehanzvadzi, kana kwaipesana nokuda kwake, kunofananidzira hunhu hwakashata hwomuoni, zvivi zvake zvizhinji, mifungo nemirangariro yakaipa, nekuedza kwake kwakawanda kukuvadza hanzvadzi yake, kuparadza upenyu hwake nokumuparadza. ukama nevaanoda.
- Nezvekududzirwa kwehope dzekuva neukama hwepedyo nehanzvadzi, chiratidzo ichi chinoreva zvakavanzika izvo bato rimwe nerimwe rinozivisa kune rimwe pasina kunyara, izvo zvinoratidza kusimba kwechisungo chinovasunga.
- Kududzirwa kwehope dzandiri kurara nehanzvadzi yangu.Muono uyu unofananidzira magumo akafanana pakati pehupenyu hwevaviri vese, zvingave maererano nehunhu, kufanana kunooneka, kana pfungwa nezvinangwa.
- Uye kana iye asina kuroorwa, saka kududzirwa kwehope yekugara pamwe chete nehanzvadzi kunoratidza muchato wake wava pedyo kana kubatanidzwa.
- Ndakarota ndakarara nehanzvadzi yangu, kana sisi vari vadiki, saka izvi hazvina kunaka uye hazvikudzwe.
- Ndakarota ndichiita bonde nehanzvadzi yangu naIbn Sirin. Maererano naIbn Sirin, chiratidzo ichi chinoratidza kutonga kwehama pamusoro pehanzvadzi yake uye kutonga kwake pamusoro pake, uye kuiswa kwezvisarudzo zvakawanda padivi rehama kuitira kuti hanzvadzi yake iite. akasungwa naye.
Kududzirwa kwehope pamusoro pekusangana nemukoma wako
- Kana munhu akaona kuti ari kuroora hama yake, ipapo chiratidzo ichi chinofananidzira nhamba huru yekukakavadzana pakati pavo, iyo inogona kusvika pakukakavadzana uye ruvengo.
- Uye kana pakava nekubatana pakati pavo, ipapo chiratidzo chinoratidza kuti hapana chakanaka machiri, sezvo chinogona kushanduka kuva chinotyisa kune vose vari vaviri.
- Pamusoro pechiratidzo chesodhoma muchiroto, tinoona kuti chiratidzo ichi chinofananidzira zvinhu zvakawanda, sezvo chiono chingaratidza kudiwa kwemukadzi akaroorwa kumukadzi.
- Uye kana iwe ukaona kuti uri kufambidzana neharahwa, ipapo chiratidzo ichi chinofananidzira kubatsirwa naye munhau dzechitendero uye kuperekedza rombo rakanaka kwauri.
- Uye kana uri kufambidzana nemunhu asingazivikanwi, zvino izvi zvinoratidza uori hwetsika uye kusaziva kwepfungwa.
- Uye chiratidzo ichi chine mhosva kana paine ruchiva kana mafaro mairi.
Dudziro yehope dzekurara nemukadzi wemukoma
Zviratidzo zvechiratidzo ichi zvinosiyana zvichienderana nemamiriro emuoni, uye tichadzokorora zvinopfuura chiratidzo chimwe chekuti muoni ane mugove wake sezvinotevera:
- Kana munhu akaona kuti ari kurara nomudzimai womukoma wake, ipapo chiratidzo ichi chinofananidzira ukama hwake hwakanaka naye, uye kubvumirwa kwake naye nokuda kwehama yake.
- Chiratidzo ichi chinomiririrawo kuvapo kwemamwe mabasa akafanana pakati pake naye, uye mabasa aya ari mukuona kuzere kwemunhu wese.
- Chiratidzo chacho chinogona kunge chiri chiratidzo chechishuwo chakavanzika chemuroti chemukadzi uyu, asi haatauri izvozvo.
- Uye kana paive nehuori hwechinangwa, ipapo chiono chinomiririra tsika yekuva nehukama hwepedyo naye muchivande.
- Kana muroti asina kuroorwa, ipapo chiratidzo chinoratidza kuda kwake kuroora hanzvadzi yake kana shamwari yake.
- Chiratidzo ichi zvakare chinoreva kutora zano kana zano rake mune zvimwe zvezvinhu zvake, uye mune ramangwana rake rinotevera.
- Chiratidzo chacho chinogona kunge chiri chirevo cherubatsiro rwaanopa kwaari kana chinodiwa chaanomuitira.
Kududzirwa kwehope dzababa vakarara nemwanasikana wavo
- The generational gap gap ndechimwe chezviratidzo zvakakosha zvekuona baba vachiroora mwanasikana wavo muchiroto.
- Vamwe vadudziri vezviroto vakataura kuti kusangana kwababa nemwana wavo kana mwanasikana wavo asina kuroora humbowo hwekuwedzera kusawirirana pakati pezvizvarwa, uye nyaya iyi yakakonzera kubuda kwegakava rakakura repfungwa, uye saka misiyano ichawedzera pakati pavo mukuuya. mazuva akawanda kupfuura zvazvaiva kare.
- Asi kana mukadzi asina kuroorwa akaona kuti baba vake vakarara naye, zvinoreva kuti dambudziko guru richauya muupenyu hwake, uye baba vachava nebasa rinokosha pakurigadzirisa uye kumubudisa kunze kwaro pasina kumukuvadza. .
- Uye kana muoni wacho akwegura uye asina kuroorwa, saka kududzirwa kwechiroto chababa vari kugara nemwanasikana wavo uchapupu hwekuroorana kwake munguva inouya, uye baba vachave vanoremekedzwa uye vanomupa zvose zvaanoda uye havazomuregi chero chinhu. .
- Ndakarota baba vangu vachirara neni, uye chiratidzo ichi, kana mukadzi akaroorwa, chinoratidza kutanga kwegakava pakati pake nemurume wake, izvo zvinogona kuita kuti abve pamba pemurume wake achidzokera kumba kwababa vake.
- Kududzirwa kwehope dzebaba vanobatana nemwanasikana wavo kunoratidza kuchengetedza mwanasikana, kumutarisira, kutarisira zvinhu zvake pachake, uye kumupa rubatsiro.
- Nezvekududzirwa kwehope dzebaba vakafa vachirara nemwanasikana wavo, chiratidzo ichi chinoratidza kunaka, mazano, kuraira, uye baba vanogara pedyo nemwanasikana wavo kunyange mushure mokubva kwavo munyika.
- Uye kana musikana wacho aibva pakugara kwababa vake, saka izvi zvinoratidza kubatsirwa kwenhaka yaakasiira.
Saiti yeEjipitori, saiti hombe ine hunyanzvi mukududzirwa kwezviroto munyika yeArab, ingonyora saiti yekuEjipita yekududzira zviroto paGoogle uye uwane dudziro chaiyo.
Kududzirwa kwechiroto pamusoro pemakunakuna
Chiono ichi chine chiratidzo chinopfuura chimwe, chingave chakanaka, kana kuti chingave chakaipa, uye musiyano uri pakati pezviratidzo uri mumashoko anokosha anorongwa nomuoni mumwe nomumwe, uye izvi zvinova pachena sezvinotevera:
- Makunakuna muchiroto anofananidzira zvakapatsanurwa ndokuzounganidzwa, kana kuti nemamwe mazwi, kuguma kwekusawirirana uye kupera kwebhandi, uye kudzoka kwekubatana pakati pemitezo yemhuri.
- Kana paine kusawirirana kana kukakavara pamusoro penyaya, chiono chinoratidza kuyanana, nekutsvaga mhinduro dzakakodzera dzekubvisa kukonana uku.
- Ukuwo, makunakuna muchiroto angafananidzira kuita zvivi zvikuru, zvakadai soupombwe, kuba, kutengesa, chimbadzo, kana kuti kugura zvisungo zvoukama.
- Uye kududzirwa kwehope dzekuvatana kunoratidza izvo muroti anobatsirwa kubva uye kubatsirwa nemunhu akaona kuti akarara naye muchiroto.
- Chiratidzo chekusangana kwemakunakuna muchiroto chiratidzo chekuungana pamusoro pekunaka uye kubatana mukuita izvo zvinoita sezvakanaka kune vese, uye izvi zvinogona kupinda mumuvengi kubva mukati, uye kukanganisa zvese.
- Kududzirwa kwechiroto chekubatana kwepabonde muhope kunoratidzawo kuti kune nguva dzepedyo dzinofadza umo nhengo dzose dzemhuri dzichaungana.
Kududzirwa kwechiroto chekusangana nehama
- Kana munhu akaona kuti ari kurara nehama dzake, zvinoreva kubatsirwa kwaachazowana kubva kuhama iyi yakamuona achirara naye.
- Uye kana muoni ari murombo, uye akaona kuti ari kufambidzana nehama yake inozivikanwa nepfuma yake uye nehupamhi hwehupenyu hwake, izvi zvinoratidza kuchinja kwemamiriro emuoni kuti ave nani, kurerutsa hupenyu hwake uye nekubatsirwa hama.
- Ichi chiono chinoratidzira kubatanidzwazve kwemhuri nokukurumidza, kubviswa kwemhinganidzo dzose dzekare panzira yavo, uye kudzokera kumaoko ehama dzokunyama uye kunamatira kwazviri panzvimbo pokutendeukira kuvaenzi.
- Chiratidzo chacho chinogona kunge chiri chiratidzo chewanano yakabatana uye kure nemuchato kubva kunze kwenyika.
- Uye muono wacho wose hautakuri zvakaipa, asi kuti unokonzera kutya uye kufunganya, uye kutya pano kunoreva kururama kwezvinhu zvemuoni uye chido chake chezvakabvumira Mwari.
Ko hope dzekuvata nasekuru dzinorevei?
Kududzirwa kwehope pamusoro pekuita zvepabonde nababamunini kunoratidza rudo pakati pake nemuroti, kuvatarisira, uye kutarisira zvavanoda muchiitiko chekufa kwababa.
Kuona kuita zvepabonde nababamunini muchiroto kunoratidza kuchinjana kwezvido zvakajairika uye zvikomborero
Ko dudziro yehope dzehanzvadzi yangu irikuda kurara neni zvinorevei?
Kududzirwa kwechiroto pamusoro pehanzvadzi inorara nehanzvadzi yake muchiroto kunoratidza ushamwari uye rudo pakati pavo
Kana muroti achiona kuti anoda kurara nehanzvadzi yake muchiroto, anogara achimutya uye anomutungamirira kunzira yakarurama uye anomushuvira zvakanaka.
Chii kududzirwa kwehope yekurara nababa vemukadzi ane pamuviri?
Kududzirwa kwekurota pamusoro pekusangana nababa mukurota kwemukadzi ane pamuviri kunoratidza kuberekwa kwemwana anotakura maitiro ake kana maitiro uye akafanana naye.
Kana mukadzi ane pamuviri akaona mumwe wemahram ake achivata naye muchiroto, ichi chiratidzo chokuti mwana wake achangoberekwa achava nechimiro chakafanana nemunhu waakaona naye.
Chii chinonzi dudziro yehope dzababa dzekuvata nemwanakomana wavo?
Kana baba vakarara nomwanakomana muchiroto, izvi zvinoratidzira kuvapo kwokusanzwisisana kukuru pakati pavo kana kuti musiyano mukuru zvikuru mumurangariro nomuono mukuru wezvokwadi yakararama.Chiono chacho chinogona kutaura zano iro murume anopa kumwanakomana wake. kuitira kuti azive mafambiro eupenyu uye mafambisirwo ahunoitwa.
Chiratidzo ichi chinofananidzira kuvapo kwerudzi rwehasha kana hutsinye mukubata kwababa nemwanakomana wavo, uye nyaya iyi haina kumira zvakanaka.Kurota kunogona kuratidza kuwedzera kwehutano hwepfungwa muhupenyu hwemwanakomana, mamiriro ake akaipa, kusakwanisa kwake kubata. hupenyu hwake, uye kuchinja mumamiriro ezvinhu akaipa.
Ko hope dzekuvata natete dzinorevei?
Kududzirwa kwechiroto pamusoro pekuvata natete kunoratidza kutaurirana uye kudzorerwa kwehukama hwemhuri mushure mekuvhiringidzwa kwenguva refu.
Kuona kuita zvepabonde natete muchiroto kunoratidza kuti pane kufarira kwakafanana pakati pavo mune rimwe basa reunyanzvi
Kwakabva:-
1- Muntakhab al-Kalam fi Tafsir al-Ahlam, Muhammad Ibn Sirin, chinyorwa cheDar al-Ma'rifah, Beirut 2000.
2- Bhuku reDudziro yeZviroto zveOptimism, Muhammad Ibn Sirin, Al-Iman Bookshop, Cairo.
Abu ImadMakore maviri apfuura
Murume ane makore 37, akaroora, akaroora, ndine vana XNUMX vechirume, aishanda semushonga.
Ndakarota ndichirara nemwanasikana wemukoma wangu kuhope kusvika pakubuda urume, ndakaona ndichikohwa zvibereko zvegreen khat kubva kunyika yemunhu anozivikanwa.