Nhepfenyuro yechikoro yakakwana pamusoro pokushandira pamwe, uchenjeri pakushandira pamwe kweredhiyo yechikoro, uye hurukuro yemangwanani pamusoro pokushandira pamwe

Redhiyo pakubatana

Tisati tatanga nhepfenyuro yechikoro pamusoro pekushandira pamwe, tichataura nezvazvo, sezvo huri humwe unhu hunokosha hunofanira kuwanikwa mumunhu, nokuti ani nani anobatsira vamwe uye anobatana navo achawana mumwe munhu anomubatsira.

Zvitendero zvose zvinodavira Mwari mumwe zvakatikurudzirawo kuti tibatane, uye kubatana hazvirevi kuti tinobatira pamwe muzvakaipa uye zvinokuvadza vamwe, asi kuti tinobatira pamwe muzvakanaka kuti rugare ruvepo munzanga.

Pasina kubatana, nyika nenyika hazvingafambire mberi.Munhu anogara achida mumwe munhu anomubatsira muupenyu hwake kuti avandudze pfungwa dzake uye anzwe akachengeteka mupfungwa.Pakati pavanhu hapana anogona kurarama asina pfudzi rokutsamira paari munguva dzenhamo. .

Chekutanga: sumo redhiyo nezvekubatana

Muzita raMwari, Ane Nyasha, Ane Ngoni, uye maari tinotsvaka rubatsiro.” Musoro weredhiyo yepachikoro chedu nhasi ndewekubatana.

Kudyidzana ndicho chimwe chezvinhu zvakakosha zvinobatsira kuti nyika ifambire mberi nekuparadzira kunaka.Munhu haararame asina vamwe, uye isu tinogara tichivada ivo nerubatsiro rwavo.Saka hama tinofanira kushanda pamwe chete uye nevanoda kuti tiite tinokwanisa kuzadzisa zvishuvo netarisiro dzedu.

Nhanganyaya yeredhiyo yechikoro nezvekubatana, chikafu chinotyisa chakagadzirwa

Rugare, tsitsi nemakomborero aMwari ngazvive kwamuri.Nhasi tinokupai nyaya yakakosha inodiwa nenyika yedu panguva ino iri maererano nekubatana.Nyika yedu haingafambire mberi isu maEgypt tisina kumira zvakanaka tichidanana. Iwe muIjipita unofanira kuita zvaunorairwa nechitendero chako uye kushandirapamwe kuitira kuti nyika yako ibatsire.KudyidzanaHakungogumiri kunyika chete, asiwo kune vaunoshanda navo nemhuri.

Mundima dzinotevera, tichakurongedzera iwe nhepfenyuro yakazara yechikoro nezvekubatana, titevere.

Ndima yeQur'an inoera yeredhiyo yechikoro pakubatana

Zvino tinokupa mavhesi kubva muBhuku raMwari anotiratidza kukosha kwekubatana kusimbisa kukosha kwayo munzanga

Iye (Samasimba) akati: “Uye batiranai mukururama nekutya Mwari, asi musadyidzana muchitadzo nemhirizhonga, uye ityai Allah, nokuti Allah vane mutongo wakaoma.

قال (تعالى): “قَالَ رَبِّ إِنِّي قَتَلْتُ مِنْهُمْ نَفْسًا فَأَخَافُ أَنْ يَقْتُلُونِ * وَأَخِي هَارُونُ هُوَ أَفْصَحُ مِنِّي لِسَانًا فَأَرْسِلْهُ مَعِيَ رِدْءًا يُصَدِّقُنِي إِنِّي أَخَافُ أَنْ يُكَذِّبُونِ * قَالَ سَنَشُدُّ عَضُدَكَ بِأَخِيكَ وَنَجْعَلُ لَكُمَا سُلْطَانًا فَلَا يَصِلُونَ إِلَيْكُمَا بِآيَاتِنَا أَنْتُمَا وَمَنِ اتَّبَعَكُمَا الْغَالِبُونَ” [القصص: 33-35].

Sharif taura neredhiyo nezvekubatana

Zvino tinokupa iwe hadith inoremekedzwa inotsanangura kukosha kwekushandira pamwe:

Mutumwa waAllah (minamato yaAllah uye runyararo ngaruve pamusoro pake) akati: “Uyo anobvisa mutendi kubva mukutambudzika kwepanyika, Allah vanomubvisira kutambudzika kubva mukutambudzika kweZuva rekumutswa. Mukubatsira muranda , muranda akanga asiri kubatsira munun’una wake.

Uchenjeri pamusoro pekubatana kweredhiyo yechikoro

Iye zvino tinokupa iwe huchenjeri pamusoro pekushandira pamwe kunosimbisa kukosha kwayo, izvo zvinoti:

Ruoko rumwe harungagoni kupfirira, asi runoda rumwe ruoko.

Vanhu havanete kana vakatambura, uye kana rwisano muboka ikapera simba, kushandira pamwe mairi kunoperawo.

Kubatira pamwe kwakafanana nokufema kunoita kuti munhu ararame, uye kana kubatana kwapera, munhu anowira mukuora mwoyo.

Kudyidzana mune zvakanaka kunokupa mabasa akanaka kubva kwausingazivi kana kuverenga.

Munhu akachena ndiye anobatsira vamwe.

Mangwanani kutaura pamusoro pekubatana

Ndafara mangwanani ano kutaura nezveunhu hwakanaka hunofanira kuva nemunhu wese, hunova hunhu hwekushandira pamwe nekubatsira vamwe zvakanaka, ungave uri weukama nemunhu uyu kana kwete, uye unofanirwa kuve munhu ane tariro uye anoshandira pamwe nevamwe. , sekutaura kwakaita Mutumwa (Rugare nemakomborero aMwari ngaruve kwaari) muhadith yake inoremekedzeka, Mwari vari murubatsiro rwemuranda chero bedzi muranda ari murubatsiro rwemukoma wake.

Nyaya pfupi yekubatana Titled Kubatana kunokanganwa kusuwa

• Rimwe zuva kwaiva nomumwe mukadzi akanga akasuruvara zvikuru pamusoro porufu rwomwanakomana wake mumwe bedzi, naizvozvo akaenda kuna meya womusha wacho achifunga kuti aigona kudzosa mwanakomana wake akanga afa ndokumukumbira kana aigona kuita chimwe chinhu kuti adzorere mwanakomana wake akanga arasika. .
• Al-Mukhtar akamupindura, akati: “Enda unotora tsanga yemasitadhi kubva muimba ine gonhi risina kugogodzwa nekusuwa. Iyi ndiyo mamiriro angu chete kusvikira ndadzorera mwanakomana wako kwauri. Mukadzi wacho akanyemwerera neshungu: “Betty pane chaaiziva kunze kwekusuwa nokurasikirwa here?”
• Akatanga kumuudza nyaya yekufa kwemurume wake makore maviri apfuura, uye akasiya vana vake, uye kuti haagone uye ari murombo uye haagone kudyisa vana vake.
• Mudzimai uyu akaenda kunoshanyira imwe imba, ndokuona mbuya vepamba apa vakamuudza kuti murume wake akanga achirwara, uye kuti akanga ava nenguva asina zvokudya zvinokwanira vana vake, uye akanga asina mari, saka mukadzi wacho akanga afirwa nomwanakomana wake akaenda kunomutorera zvokudya nemari yokumubatsira, akabva aenda.
• Uye akatanga kutsvaka imba isingapindi kusuwa, achitsvaka musha une mufaro, asi zvose zvaaiedza zvakakona, asi mai ava vaiva nemoyo munyoro nemoyo munyoro kune vose vaiva neshungu pamoyo.
• Akava shamwari yevaridzi vose vemisha yemusha akanyura mumanzwiro nezvinetso zvevamwe, achikanganwa nhamo yake asingazive kuti mukhtar wemusha akanga abatira pamwe naye mukumupa nzira yakanakisisa yokubvisa nayo nhamo yake kunyange zvazvo akaibvisa. haana kuwana tsanga yemasitadhi yaakanga achitsvaka.

Uchenjeri huri pano kubva munyaya iyi ndehwekuti kushandira pamwe uye kubatsira vamwe zvinobatsira mukuderedza marwadzo, kusuwa uye kurasikirwa nekuti unonzwa kufara paunobatsira vamwe.

Redhiyo pakubatana kwekutanga nhanho

Shamwari dzangu dzinoremekedzwa nevadzidzisi vepachikoro changu, nhasi ndine rukudzo kukuratidzai kutepfenyura kwechikoro pamusoro peunhu hwakanaka hwevanhu hunokurudzirwa nezvitendero zvose, kunova kubatana.

Tinofanira kutora mukana wekubatana muzvinhu zvese zviripo muhupenyu hwedu.” Allah (Samasimba neHukuru) vanoti: “Uye batirai tambo yaAllah mose pamwe chete uye musapatsanurwa.” Mwari vakatiraira muBhuku ravo dzvene kuti shandira pamwe nekubatana mawoko, uye zvakare Mutumwa (minamato yaAllah nerugare ngazvive kwaari) akatiraira kuti tishande muhadith yake inoremekedzwa: “MuMuslim anotenda kumutendi akafanana nechivako, chimwe chikamu chinotsigira chimwe.

Zviri pachena kubva kuMuporofita (Mwari ngavamuropafadze uye vave nerunyararo) kuti mutendi kumutendi akafanana nehama, mumwe nemumwe wavo anobatsira mumwe uye anosimbisa ruoko rwehama yake kana awira mudambudziko kana mukuomerwa, uye kubatana haingogumiri kuhama, shamwari, kana vabereki kumba chete, asiwo kubatana kune vatisingazive, kunyangwe vasina kutikumbira rubatsiro.

Uno Dzidza nezvekubatana kweredhiyo yechikoro

Uye zvino tinopa kwauri ndima Waizviziva here kutitsanangurira kukosha kwekushandira pamwe uye nesu wekutanga waiziva kuti:

Waizviziva here kuti kubatsira vamwe kunoita kuti ufare?

Waizviziva here kuti kushanda pamwe chete neshamwari dzako kunokurudzira kuita zvakanaka?

Maizviziva here kuti kubatana kunoita kuti munhu aite basa rake nyore?

Unoziva here nezve kunaka kwekubatana

Unoziva here kuti kubatana kunoita kuti anobatsira anzwe kufara nekuti aibatsira vamwe uye aikwanisa kumubvisa pazvinomunetsa, uye kuti kana munhu ari munhamo akawana anomubatsira, zvinomupedza shungu nenhamo, uye anonzwa kuti kuoma kwacho kunorerutswa nekuvapo kwevanhu vakawanda vachiedza kumubatsira.

Unoziva here kuti munhu anobatira pamwe anowanzova munhu akachena uye anofara?

Wanga uchiziva here kuti kubatana kunosundidzira iwe kuzadzisa zvaunotarisira uye zvaunoshuvira?

Redhiyo kutaura nezvekubatana

Nhasi ndafarira kutanga zuva rangu nemusoro wenyaya uye nechinzvimbo chandakaronzeswa neMuporofita wedu Mutsvene (Mwari vamuropafadze uye vave nerunyararo), kunova kubatana.

Kudyidzana kunogara kuchitaurwa nezvako muzvirongwa zveredhiyo zvinozvipira kutaura nezvekukosha kwaro kuitira kukurudzira vanhu kuti vabatane nehurumende kuti ifambire mberi nekurwisa huori, uye kushanda pamwe hakubatsiri veruzhinji chete, asi kunodzokerawo kuvanhu nekuti kunopa munhu zvake. simba rekushandisa basa raanonzi akaita paanenge achishanda pakati peboka, pamwe chete nokushandira pamwe Anoshanda kuderedza mutoro panguva yebasa paanoshandisa vamwe kumubatsira kuita basa rake.

Nzira yekudzidzisa vana kushandira pamwe

Imwe yemisoro inokosha yatinofanira kudzidzisa vana vedu kubatira pamwe mukururama kwete muzvakaipa, uye ikoku kunotanga kubvira pauduku, naizvozvo vabereki vanofanira kurangarira fundo yakanaka yavana vavo kupfurikidza nokuvakurudzira batira pamwe mumabasa epamba.

Uye kuvakurudzira kubetsera vavanodzidza navo, uye kudzivisa kuvaita hunhu hwoudyire uye kuchengeta mashoko avo kwavari vamene.’ Panzvimbo pezvo, tinovadzidzisa kuti batira pamwe inoita kuti zvakanaka kukurire munhu ari wose uye kuti apo ivo vanobetsera kana kuti kupa vamwe mashoko, Mwari anoisa ikoko mukuenzanisa. Mabasa ake akanaka uye anopa kubudirira mubasa rake, uye mwana anofanira kupiwa mubayiro kana akamira padivi pevamwe.

Mhedziso yeredhiyo yechikoro pamusoro pekushandira pamwe

Uye ikozvino nguva yekutepfenyura kuchikoro kwedu yasvika kumagumo, izvo tinovimba zvakakunda kuyemura kwako uye zvakabatsirwa zvakanyanya kubva, uye yakawedzera kune ruzivo rwako nezvekukosha kwekubatana uye mabhenefiti ayo, uye ndinoda kupedzisa nekunamatira kubatira pamwe. nokuti inotibatsira kurarama upenyu hwakanaka, tichava nyika yakasimba, uye kana mhuri ikabatira pamwe, rudo nokudziya zvichavapo pakati pavo.